Tantric Birth Support
Pleasure Is Our Birthright
What is Tantric Birth Support?
This is my tantric doula service. I help you to experience an empowered and joyful pregnancy, birth, and postnatal period.
I understand that this may be one of the most important phases in your life so I take great care to ensure you feel listened to, respected, and as resourced as possible.
Whether you are preparing for free birth, home birth, or hospital birth, I’ll be there with you throughout your childbearing year with unwavering faith in your power.
Why is tantric birth support so powerful?
Every person in their childbearing year deserves more support than our society typically offers.
There’s a misconception that it is “woo woo” to have a doula and that the midwives can do it all. In reality, the midwives are primarily there to offer medical interventions which is a very important role when needed. However, as a tantric birthkeeper, I do what the midwives often don’t have time or training for:
Emotional support and experienced guidance with processing any stories, pressures, fears, self-doubt, traumas, and blocks to you knowing your most empowered and joyful self
Advocating for your birth preferences and helping you to make informed choices by ensuring medical jargon is brought down to earth
Ensuring your body is nurtured with nutritious food and drinks, loving touch if desired, and the comfort and care needed for rest
Setting the tone so the atmosphere doesn't feel heavy and you can relax your mind knowing there’s an abundance of love and oxytocin flowing through your body encouraging the waves which welcome your baby earthside
Helping you to access your intuition so you can feel clear on your preferences and trust yourself if things change so you can go with the flow
Discovering which tools help you drop into the altered state of consciousness which can arise in the birth portal to help you connect with your body and your baby
Trusting your ability to birth with love regardless of how your baby comes earthside
Empowering you to connect with mother nature and your sexual energy so you can meet any pain with the knowing that it is part of a sacred process which can potentially be released into a pleasurable, orgasmic birth!
“Thank you so much for all of your support… The work I have done with you has certainly helped calm me and keep me in a positive head space. You are a complete natural at what you do and I know you will help many others!”
— Mother from Doulas Without BordersHow do we work together?
Step 1: Book your Discovery Session
Share how you’re feeling and what your desires are, ask me any questions, and ultimately, decide if I’m the right doula for you. If all feels good, you can request an invoice for your Tantric Birth Support. The investment is £3k.
Step 2: Book your three prenatal sessions
In these 2-hour sessions we will meet in-person so we can connect as a birthing team and explore: your birth preferences; prepping nutritious food and drinks for birth; your postnatal plan; any emotions you are experiencing; therapeutic yoga for any physical discomfort in your pregnancy; Womb Tantra tools for birth (which you can learn more about on the Living Temple Course page); and at home practices for deep rest and practicing altered states.
Step 3: Decide whether you’d like optional extras prenatally
a) 1:1 Sexual Empowerment Mentoring with Katie is helpful for people who have experienced sexual or birth trauma, who want to feel deeply connected to their sexual energy during birth, and for those considering free birth as this can require more preparation than we can cover in the included three prenatal sessions.
b) I can organise and host your Mother’s Blessing Ceremony where your closest friends and family members will gather to honour, empower, and shower you with love as you move through this monumental time in your life!
Step 4: I’m on call for you for six weeks
You’ll let me know your due date, or we’ll make our best guess if you’re having a wild pregnancy. I’ll block out my doula calendar for three weeks either side (and will extend this if needed) so I will be devoted to supporting you. During this time, you can message or call me if your birth portal is opening or if you have any concerns and I’ll get back to you within 5-30 minutes and can be with you in-person within 30-60 minutes.
Step 5: I support your birth
When your birth portal is opening, I will come to help you set the tone in the space and will offer you as much or as little assistance as you need. I plan to be with you for up to 3 days (and will extend if needed).
Step 6: Book your three postnatal sessions
In these 2-hour sessions I will: support you to feel confident with feeding; empower you in your parenting choices; offer therapeutic yoga to nurture your body; ensure you are receiving the nutrients and nurturing you deserve; explore any emotions you may be experiencing; and talk through and celebrate your experience together!